Yebo, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kukhona abaphilayo kahle abangomuntu omubi. Abantu abaningi abasebenza emsebenzini wokugcina izimpilo zabantu banazo izici ezibalulekile zomuntu ophilayo kahle.
Ingabe abantu abaphilayo kahle bayazi ukuthi banomona?
Abantu abaphilayo kahle bangazi ukuthi bayenza kanjani, kanye nokuthi lokho abakwenza kuyiyo into embi, kodwa bangazwa ngayo njengabantu abangaphilayo kahle, ngenxa yokwehluleka ukwazi ukuzwa izizathu zabanye.
Ingabe umuntu ophilayo kahle angaphila impilo ejwayelekile?
Noma kunabantu abaningi abaphilayo kahle abaphumile emajele kunabantu abanjalo, abaningi babo baye baphila iminyaka emihle, emiphumelelayo nokugcwalisa – kodwa ukufika lapho akuyona indlela eqondile njalo.
Ingabe umuntu ophilayo kahle angaba nesizathu?
Ababhali baphetha ukuthi abantu abaphilayo kahle abanazo izizathu zokungaboni kahle noma ukungaqondi, kodwa izindlela zemizwa ekuqaleni kulezi zinzuzo azizivumelwanga ngokuzenzakalela (bheka futhi amaKeysers noGazzola, 2014 ngekhono vs. isidingo sesizathu).
Ingabe abantu abaphilayo kahle bangabona injabulo?
Abantu abaphilayo kahle banazo izizathu … hhayi, ezinye izizathu. Ngenkathi abantu abaphilayo kahle babonisa ukungabikho kwemizwa ethize, njengokwesaba, ukwesaba nokudabuka, bangazizwa ezinye izizathu, njengejabulo, ujabule, ukwamukelwa nokunuka, ngendlela efana nalapho esinye isizathu.
Abantu Abaphilayo Kahle: Ingabe Amacala Ababo Angaguqulwa?
Ingabe umuntu ophilayo kahle angathanda?
Ukungabanduki kwezocansi kanye nokungabi nesibindi—izinselelo ezimbili ezibalulekile zokuphila okungaphili kahle—zihlobene namaphuzu okuxhumanisa okungaphili kahle. Abantu abaphilayo kahle abaphakeme baxhuma imibhangqwana yocansi, nokuthi bangashada noma bangabeka isixhumanisi esithembekile.
Ingabe umuntu ophilayo kahle angakhala?
Kunazo ezinye izindawo lapho abantu abaphilayo kahle bangazwa izimo ezijwayelekile futhi ukuguga kuyinye yalezo zindawo. Ngokuphendula ukufa kwomuntu onobudlelwano naye, abanye abantu abaphilayo kahle bengazwa ukudabuka futhi lokhu kungadala izimo zokungcola okungenani azikwazi ukuzwa. Ukukhala kungaba yingxenye yale nkinga.
Ingabe abantu abaphilayo kahle bangazisola?
Isikhathi eside, abacwaningi abazama ukuphila okungaphili kahle babeka isifo njengokungakwazi ukucubungula izimo ezifana nempathi, ukusola, noma ukusoliswa. Isifundo esisodwa esivela kuqala, kodwa, sicabangela ukuthi abantu abaphilayo kahle abakwazi ukuzwa izimo ezifana nokusoliswa nokungalungile.
Yini abantu abaphilayo kahle abayikho?
Isifundo sibonisa ukuthi abantu abaphilayo kahle banabantu abancane phakathi kwesikhungo somcabango se-ventromedial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC), ingxenye yomcabango efanelekayo ukuthi izimo ezifana nempathi nokungcola, kanye ne-amygdala, okuyinto engenisa ukwesaba nokuphazima.
Ingabe abaphathini banezinzwa ngabantu?
Kepha yini abaphathini bonke ababonakali ukungabi nenhlonipho yangempela kwezinzwa nezizathu? Njengezikhathi ezinhle, abaningi abaphathini bethanda abazali babo, isithandwa sabo, abantwana babo, nezilwane zabo ngendlela yabo, kodwa banenkinga yokuthanda nokuthemba umhlaba wonke.
Ingabe abaphathini baphucuka ngokukhula?
Ukuphendula: Noma abantu abaningi baphuthuma ngokukhula, lokhu akubonakali kuba njalo kubantu abane-ASPD noma abaphathini. Abafundi bathi izenzo ezingalungile ezihlobene ne-ASPD zivamise ukuba zibi kakhulu uma abantu abanomkhuba wokuphatha abantu bakhula.
Kuthiwani okukhuthaza umphathi?
Abaphathini bawenza izinqumo ngaphandle kokucabangela abantu abanye, futhi banikezwa yisifiso sokuhlasela ababalingani babo. “Abanye abaphathini bamakoporofithi baphumelela ukufuna izindawo zokukhathazeka, baboreka ngokushesha, bafuna ukukhuthazwa, futhi badlala imidlalo yengqondo ngosizo olukhulu lokufuna ukunqoba,” kusho uBabiak no-O’Toole.
Ngabe ngiyazi ukuthi ngiyumphathi?
- ukuphatha okuphikisana nemithetho yomphakathi.
- ukungazinaki noma ukuphula amalungelo abanye.
- ukungakwazi ukwahlukanisa phakathi kokulungile nokungalungile.
- izenzo ezinzima zokubonisa ukukhathazeka noma ukuzizwa.
- ukunquma ukuthi kudlalwe amanga njalo.
- ukuphathisa nokuhlasela abanye.
- izinkinga ezivamile nemthetho.
Uthini uNkulunkulu ngabaphathi?
Ukuphathwa kweBhayibheli ‘Bathembisa ukuthi bayazi uNkulunkulu, kodwa ngokwenza kwabo bamqambela’ (uTitus 1:15-16, NIV). Izici eziyinhloko zalezi zindawo zibonakala kungokungabi nesizathu esihle, ukubukeka kwezindlela ezimbili, ukungazweli nokubaluleka, nokuthi zinokwenzeka ukuthi zonakelele izihlalo.
Ingabe umphathi angasindiswa?
NGOKWAZI KWETHU, akukho lukhula lwe-psychopathy. Ayikho ipilisi engenza isimpathi, ayikho i-vaccine engavikela ukubulala ngegazi elibandayo, futhi ayikho inani elanele lezinkulumo zokuthi zishintshe icabanga elingazweli. Ngazo zonke izindlela ezinjalo, abaphathi baphazamisekile emhlabeni wokuhlangana okujwayelekile.
Kungani abaphathi bafuna ukukuhlupheka?
Ngokuhlukana nezihluku, abaphathi abaswabi nje ngoba bathola injabulo kuyo (nakuba bangakwazi). Abaphathi bafuna izinto. Uma ukungcola abanye kusiza ukuthi bathole lokho abafuna, makunje. Kungase kwenzeke lokho ngoba kuyancipha ukuthi bazizwe noma bazizwa noma bazizwe.
Yini abaphathi abayifunayo?
Abaphathi bafuna ukuphumelelaOkuqukethwe kule datha, ikhanda le-psychopath liqondiswa ukufuna iziphathimandla ngokuphelele. Lokho ngoba ikhanda le-psychopath lingakhipha ukufakazela ukuthi kufike ku-4 izikhathi ngokuningi isikhathi sokudluliswa kwedopamine ngenxa yeziphathimandla kunesikhathi esingaphathiweyo.
Yini abazenzisi abangaye bayakhathazeka ngayo?
Abazenzisi abangaye nabo ngeke bakhethe, njengawe, ukuthi bayakhathazeka ngokuba ngabanye. Babazi ukuthi banazo izici zokuzenza abangaye, kodwa abazazi ukukhathazeka ngakho.
Ingabe abazenzisi abangaye bangafunda amacabango?
Umuntu ongazenzisi angaye abe nozwelo lokunakekela lokuphakamisa, futhi. Nokho, bayakwazi ukufunda abanye abantu. Kungathi bangafunda amacabango ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa noma bangakwazi ukulandela izindlela zomuntu, lokho akuchazwani ngokwezwelo nabo – abanalo uzwelo lwabantu.